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Saturday, 02 January 2010

PUA Openers

As most dating Scene people understand, an opener is the first thing a guy says to a woman to begin the conversation. It's not used to attract the woman right away. Relationships are like a car. The first step is opening the door. Openers are the typical way anybody starts talking to anyone. Relationships between two people require time and sacrifice. People join the Seduction Scene when they realize they need help in this game.

Even though our members is publicly known as as the seduction community, very few of us are actually seducers and those of us who are believe it is mutual and comes after forming a bona fide relationship. Who doesn't love it when their woman gives them that look? You know the one I'm talking about. That is a part of life.

Stopping to think can kill any momentum you have. Just open. The typical way for people to meet is through their friends.In movies when the man sweeps women off her feet and they fall madly in love, it is often because he initiated the conversation with her as a complete stranger.

The best type of PUA opener is unarguably something intelligent a man comes up with on the spot relating to the current situation, hence the term situational opener. The key to using a situational opener is saying something clever or interesting rather than something boring that shes heard 50 times before such as "Whats your name? Where are you from?Whats your job" or some variation of these boring interview questions. You can ask her directions or the time but a witty statement is best. For instance, just today I opened with "It's almost my little sisters birthday. But I can't afford a pony. What do you think is good to get a 5 year old girl?" And it worked. We ended up going to bed together 2 hours later.

An opener is totally different from a line, which is a planned group of words that non-community guys use because they think it s smart. As a member of the seduction community you are going to hear some of the top guru s give examples of clever and interesting phrases that you will be tempted to repeat. If you do this IT WILL NOT WORK because it is not genuine and women will be able to tell. To get you started on being clever and interesting to women, develop an artistic skill, read up on pop media, or purchase a book on kokology.

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Friday, 01 January 2010

I'm sitting here in my room reading drinking some Johnny Walker and contemplating the last 10 years of my life. I mean...it's just not what it should be. My dating life has gotten better over the years but something just felt like it was missing. Wee! I can get girls but something is keeping me from getting the girls that I WANT! It's some sort of inner issue that's been facing me all my life.

I think it's the fact that I don't feel good enough for anyone. My dad was a typical Asian parent who felt the need to destroy my self esteem. I don't blame him for it. His dad did it to him and his dad did it to him and so on. It's a destructive cycle that many families go through. Still I have an issue with being Asian and going for white girls. So it was with trepidation when I read Asian dating superstars.

Asians don't have it easy at times, the medias not nice on them and then there are stereotypes like being a book worm and being shy and reserved. I still remember all those movies where I cringed when there was an Asian being a stereotype. I mean...we always see white guys with Asian girls but not the other way around.

That said, some of my best friends are Asian and they are some of the biggest pimps I have ever seen. They just oozed charisma.

Anyway, most Asian guys I know aren't all that sleek and charming. Some are nervous in social situations, quiet, and reserved. Sometimes it can be painful watching these guys in action. I would know. I have taken plenty out in field myself.

Personally, I think it's the whole Asian upbringing and stringent discipline and stuff but who knows really? We can sit here all day and play arm chair psychologist.

Well...I had a chance to review a product by a guy named Ryker Koh. Ryker talks to 13 of the world's best Asian PUAs. Asian PUAs teaching other Asians. What a great idea.

I wish I had this when I was just starting out in the Game.

"Asian men can only date Asian women. And all the women are going for white guys." Yeah...I know you see it everywhere...movies...on the street...Guess what?!That's not a problem.

I checked out the first 5 interviews and this Ryker guy really drills these Asian dating coaches hard. I found myself cringing with familiarity.

Even from a non-Asian perspective, this product is value for money. First of, the cast Ryker brought together is insane.

D.J. Fuji, Jeremy Soul, Mr. M, Troy Dizon, Daniel Rose are just some of the guys.
What are you taking for? Get Asian Dating Superstars.

Not Asian? Not a problem, cause it deals with limiting notions as a whole. I remember the time when I thought being short was a problem nowadays, I struggled to recollect why I even let that thought affect me in the first place.

Do yourself a favor, my Yellow Brother. Check this out. You would have to pay thousands to get access to all these coaches. But it's all here in a nice little package.
After listening I had to sit down for a bit and let myself catch up with my thoughts. . I feel sorry for any Asian guy without this information.

Not Asian? It's still worth a look.It's time to silence that nagging voice.
After listening to it, I guarantee you will feel a deeper sense of clarity and self-belief. Well, I certainly did.

To anybody reading this...good luck...

Thursday, 31 December 2009

Hey guys. Just starting this whole blogging thing as a part of my new years resolution. I want to be able to come back throughout the years and read my thoughts. Happy 2010!